Ep 9 – Discussing Public and Private Play

Discussing Public and Private Play:

  • Often paperwork required such as a release for the facility
  • Some venues require vetting
  • They help dispel the myth that kink is for the wealthy (Christian Grey Syndrome)
  • Meeting a diversity of people and their play styles
  • Can often be a learning environment
  • Dungeon Masters (DM)

It is important to know the rules of the venue!!

Don’t take pictures of anyone or anything without permission (again, most play parties and nearly all public dungeons ban any kind of photography). Don’t violate other people’s privacy.

“People who are outed risk losing their professional and social status; access to their children; and, in extreme cases, going to prison for having engaged in consensual adult activities in private. This raises significant civil liberties issues regarding the right to a private life, as guaranteed by law,” says Myles Jackman, an incisive, eloquent barrister who frequently advises Backlash, a campaigning group which fights for the right to freedom of sexual expression.

https://www.xojane.com/sex/what-to-expect-bdsm-event-party

https://www.kinkly.com/2/9145/sex-tips/bdsm/everything-you-need-to-know-about-your-first-bdsm-play-party

http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2014/10/28/the_jian_ghomeshi_case_echoes_many_kinksters_worst_fears_being_outed_and.html

https://www.newstatesman.com/lifestyle/2014/08/allure-closet-kink-only-sexy-when-it-underground

Show Links –

Email – ascensionshow@club-ascension.com

Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl

Patreon Support – https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow

The Show Website – https://theascensionshow.com/

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/

Twitter – https://twitter.com/AscensionShow

Ep 8 – Highlights the difference in Abuse and BDSM

Highlighting the main differences between BDSM and Abuse
• From the outside the line can appear to be fuzzy
• Consent is the cornerstone of BDSM. Abuse is where no consent is given.
• We discuss highlights of abusive relationships:
• Red flags of abuse in BDSM or otherwise:
• The giving of a safeword is not a substitute for setting limits and negotiation beforehand.
o See here: www.dailydot.com/irl/kink-bdsm-consent-problem/
• In BDSM consent should be just the starting point. Negotiation must follow.
• Discuss how the kink community must get better at policing our own.
Reference Links:
www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-e…mental-health
www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/a…of-grey/385267/
www.graydancer.com/shibarico/

Show Links:
Email – ascensionshow@club-ascension.com
Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl

Links:
Patreon Support – www.patreon.com/ascensionshow
The Show Website – theascensionshow.com/
Facebook – www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/
Twitter – twitter.com/ascensionshow

Ep 7 – Slut Shaming and Sexual Harassment

We are talking about Slut Shaming and Sexual Harassment with ReverendTodd, -Tbone- and NrthnRebl.  This is a problem within all walks of life.  It doesn’t matter if your in Kink, Swing, Poly, LGBT, Vanilla or anything in between.  We touch on it in various forms.  Have any questions or comments about the show?  Please email us and let us know!

Email – ascensionshow@club-ascension.com

Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd, -Tbone-, NrthnRebl

Links:

Patreon Support – https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow

The Show Website – https://theascensionshow.com/

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/

Twitter – https://twitter.com/AscensionShow

YouTube Channel – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7sSWJN-Vm5XSH7AplS7VFw

Club Ascension – http://club-ascension.com/

Reference from the Show notes:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health

https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2015/02/consent-isnt-enough-in-fifty-shades-of-grey/385267/

http://www.graydancer.com/shibarico/

Ep 6 – 7 Types of Non-Monogamous Relationships

ReverendTodd, NrthnRebl and -Tbone- are talking about various non-monogamous relationship types. In a comedic and opinionated fashion between the three of us.
Email – ascensionshow@club-ascension.com Email on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl
Links: Patreon Support – https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow The Show Website – https://theascensionshow.com/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/ Twitter – https://twitter.com/AscensionShow Club Ascension – http://club-ascension.com/

Ep 5 – Dom/sub drop and After Care

-Tbone-, ReverendTodd and NrthnRebl delve into Dom/sub drop and aftercare. Maybe you have heard of it, maybe you haven’t. We try to help bring some understanding of what happens when we play in the Kink lifestyle.
Links:
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Facebook – www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/
Twitter – twitter.com/Club_Ascend

Ep 4 – New to the Lifestyle

We talk about the fears and anxiety of being new.  The best ways to get involved in the lifestyle safely.  Trying to help you make the first steps in the Kink world and save you from some headaches.

Want to submit ideas for the show? Have topic ideas or maybe you just want to reach out to one of us on the show.  Feel free to shoot us email – ascensionshow@club-ascension.com or on Fetlife.com – ReverendTodd , -Tbone-, NrthnRebl

Links:

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Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/
Twitter – https://twitter.com/Club_Ascend

Youtube Channel – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7sSWJN-Vm5XSH7AplS7VFw

Club Ascension – http://club-ascension.com/

 

Ep 3 – Daddy Mommy Doms and Littles Dynamics

NrthnRebl joins with -Tbone- and ReverendTodd in hosting the show.  Special guest miseriacantare of fetlife.  We delve into the Dom/Little dynamics and talk with Wild_Draco’s a Daddy Dom on fetlife.  One of Club Ascension’s very own staff.

– What is a little
– What is the dynamic
– Is it wrong

and so much more… Tune it and check it out!

Patreon Support – https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow

The Show Website – https://theascensionshow.com/

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/

Twitter – https://twitter.com/Club_Ascend

 

Ep 2 – Mental Health and the BDSM Lifestyle

Our guest panel was Jess Elaine and Magdalena Knight joined by our special guest – Dale “Butch” Ross. Dale is the Author of “Stopping the Madness” his online book for men’s issues (including leather) can be found on Amazon, get your copy today! With his Kink Aware therapy practice in Southfield, Mi.

The discussion taps into the mental health of people who are involved in alternative lifestyles.  How the DSM 5 has changed its view on the kink lifestyle and so much more!

Links in the Show:

Our Patreon Page for support – www.patreon.com/clubascension

Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (Claw) – www.CLAWInfo.org

Pride Source from the publishers of “Between the lines newspaper” can be found at – www.pridesource.com

Club Ascension in the Detroit Metro area – club-ascension.com

The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF) – www.ncsfreedom.org

Articles published by Dale Ross –
www.50plusprime.com/author/dale-ross/

Arizona Gay Leather website www.GayNFlagstaff.com (click on ‘newsletter’ then each month)

Ep 1 – The Complexities of Consent

ReverendTodd and -Tbone- are discussing the Complexities of Consent in alternative lifestyles.  They are joined by Kimberly Sinical, Magdalena Knight and the quiet Freak.  A topic that is quite the hot button currently.  We try to delve into it as deeply as we can.  Although this is a topic that could probably cover many episodes, we try to touch on as much as possible.  This is a topic we are sure to be revisited many times through our shows.

Links:

Our Patreon Page for support – https://www.patreon.com/ascensionshow

Our Website – https://theascensionshow.com/

Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theascensionshow/

Twitter – https://twitter.com/Club_Ascend

The NCSF – https://www.ncsfreedom.org/