Ep 12 – Fisting

Fisting is a sexual activity that involves inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum. Once insertion is complete, the fingers are either clenched into a fist or kept straight. Fisting may be performed without a partner, but it is most often a partnered activity.

Safe fisting requires patience, practice, communication, and, yes, plenty of lube. “No matter your gender or the hole you’re fisting, be sure to go slower than you think you need to, and use more lube than you think you need”

Show notes reference Links:

http://www.refinery29.com/what-is-fisting

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Ep 11 – Ethics and Protocol in BDSM

Today we talk about ethics and protocols in the BDSM lifestyle and how they apply in the world around us.  GoddessManda joins us for this one as a lifestyle educator and Domme.

  • Protocol in Public
  • Protocol in Private
  • What are Ethics
  • Ethics and the world around us
  • How do we define protocols for ourselves

Reference link used for show notes:

https://slexi.wordpress.com/2012/03/04/protocol-and-behaviour-with-in-ds-relationships/

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Ep 10 – Lets talk Bondage

Our Guests on the show today are Illiana and Wild Dracos

  • Bondage is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. Rope, cuffs, bondage tape, self-adhering bandage, or other physical restraints may be used for this purpose.
  • Shibari is a whole entire subject on it’s own.
  • Safety is a huge factor in all forms of bondage. The top must be prepared for emergencies and have a plan to release the bottom quickly.
  • The bottom should prepare themselves both mentally and physically.
  • Historical
    • Bondage is also presented in erotic and mainstream literary forms, including cartoons and magazines, and depicted in erotic art, such as some of the works of Gustave Doré and John Everett Millais. The mythical Andromeda was a popular subject for bondage in art by painters including Rembrandt’s Andromeda Chained to the Rocks (1630), Théodore Chassériau (1840), Edward Poynter (1869) and Gustave Doré (1869).
    • A popular motif in the days of silent film and into the 1930’s were “damsels in distress” with the actress often bound on railroad tracks or in other forms.
    • Depictions of bondage in art may be erotic, in which case they follow a heteronormative model and tend to depict a young woman in danger and fear. Bizarre was a fetish and bondage magazine published between 1946–1959 by bondage artist John Willie. It included drawings and photographs using professional bondage models in bondage or sadomasochistic scenes. Sweet Gwendoline was the main female character in his works, published largely in the 1950s and 60’s, and possibly the most famous bondage icon after Bettie Page.
    • Bondage in mainstream media became more and more normalized (if depicted on the lighter bondage side).
    • By the 1990s, references to bondage could be found in mainstream prime-time television series such as Buffy the Vampire Slayer, where equipment such as handcuffs or collars and concepts such as the safeword were included as a matter of course

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Ep 9 – Discussing Public and Private Play

Discussing Public and Private Play:

  • Often paperwork required such as a release for the facility
  • Some venues require vetting
  • They help dispel the myth that kink is for the wealthy (Christian Grey Syndrome)
  • Meeting a diversity of people and their play styles
  • Can often be a learning environment
  • Dungeon Masters (DM)

It is important to know the rules of the venue!!

Don’t take pictures of anyone or anything without permission (again, most play parties and nearly all public dungeons ban any kind of photography). Don’t violate other people’s privacy.

“People who are outed risk losing their professional and social status; access to their children; and, in extreme cases, going to prison for having engaged in consensual adult activities in private. This raises significant civil liberties issues regarding the right to a private life, as guaranteed by law,” says Myles Jackman, an incisive, eloquent barrister who frequently advises Backlash, a campaigning group which fights for the right to freedom of sexual expression.

https://www.xojane.com/sex/what-to-expect-bdsm-event-party

https://www.kinkly.com/2/9145/sex-tips/bdsm/everything-you-need-to-know-about-your-first-bdsm-play-party

http://www.slate.com/blogs/outward/2014/10/28/the_jian_ghomeshi_case_echoes_many_kinksters_worst_fears_being_outed_and.html

https://www.newstatesman.com/lifestyle/2014/08/allure-closet-kink-only-sexy-when-it-underground

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Ep 8 – Highlights the difference in Abuse and BDSM

Highlighting the main differences between BDSM and Abuse
• From the outside the line can appear to be fuzzy
• Consent is the cornerstone of BDSM. Abuse is where no consent is given.
• We discuss highlights of abusive relationships:
• Red flags of abuse in BDSM or otherwise:
• The giving of a safeword is not a substitute for setting limits and negotiation beforehand.
o See here: www.dailydot.com/irl/kink-bdsm-consent-problem/
• In BDSM consent should be just the starting point. Negotiation must follow.
• Discuss how the kink community must get better at policing our own.
Reference Links:
www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-e…mental-health
www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/a…of-grey/385267/
www.graydancer.com/shibarico/

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Ep 7 – Slut Shaming and Sexual Harassment

We are talking about Slut Shaming and Sexual Harassment with ReverendTodd, -Tbone- and NrthnRebl.  This is a problem within all walks of life.  It doesn’t matter if your in Kink, Swing, Poly, LGBT, Vanilla or anything in between.  We touch on it in various forms.  Have any questions or comments about the show?  Please email us and let us know!

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Reference from the Show notes:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health

https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2015/02/consent-isnt-enough-in-fifty-shades-of-grey/385267/

http://www.graydancer.com/shibarico/

Ep 6 – 7 Types of Non-Monogamous Relationships

ReverendTodd, NrthnRebl and -Tbone- are talking about various non-monogamous relationship types. In a comedic and opinionated fashion between the three of us.
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Ep 5 – Dom/sub drop and After Care

-Tbone-, ReverendTodd and NrthnRebl delve into Dom/sub drop and aftercare. Maybe you have heard of it, maybe you haven’t. We try to help bring some understanding of what happens when we play in the Kink lifestyle.
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